Oral sex date
It turns out that if a man knows that there are others romantically interested in you, he is more likely to make you orgasm through oral sex.
This competitive introduction to going-downtown prevents sperm competition and helps men pass on their genes (so caveman-esque).
"Every woman and man should know their boundaries before they start dating, and most of us don't," says Cheryl Mc Clary, Ph D, JD, professor of women's health at University of North Carolina-Asheville.
When Mc Clary refers to boundaries, she's not talking just about the physical boundaries that come with sexual territory. "Emotional wholeness is crucial to the decision process of whether or not to have sex," Mc Clary tells Web MD.
Other experts agree that sex too-soon can lead to undesirable consequences.
According to the singles whom Allen has encountered, boomers generally play by far different dating rules than young, 20-something daters.
"I spoke with a young man in his early to mid-20s who told me that if he didn't have sex on the first or second night, he'd move on to the next person," she recalls.
Those men are most likely to put you first, like you deserve.
The reason we all participate in oral sex seems pretty simple: it feels god damn great.
"Make sure your brain, heart, and penis are in conjunction -- they should all be in a straight line before you have sex," she says.